Encourage a Growth Mind Set


 The phrase, Growth Mind Set has become the buzz words for admissions directors representing ongoing schools with elementary-aged students. These same schools that may be a future choice for our families  Twin Parks Montessori Schools know all about Growth Mind Sets. Kudos go to Dr. Carol Dweck and her colleagues for their research on students’ attitudes about failure. They questioned why some students rebound and try again while others are devastated by small setbacks. After studying thousands of children, Dr. Dweck came up with the terms Fixed Mindset and Growth Mindset to define some thoughts about learning and intelligence.

When children think they can get smarter, they will put in extra effort to help themselves. Dr. JoAnn Deak also said that the brain is malleable and flexible like stretching rubber bands. The more you work at something connectivity between neurons increase and change with experience.


Practice along with using good strategies, asking questions and eating and sleeping well do help us become smarter. If you believe your brain can grow, you will increase your motivation and achievement. Mind in the Making:  Seven Essential Life Skills Every Child Needs by Ellen Galinsky is also a good read for parents.

The following chart gives examples of what children can be taught to think and say to themselves during times of challenge and frustration. I also think they are wonderful messages adults can use, too.

Good messages for everyone to use!